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Can you just let it die everything was set straight you know this isnt about her its about you AND IM NOT THE PATH YOU NEED TO TAKE. it wont cure you fix you SAVE YOU. its just an escape attacking me wont fix your demons you need to look in and face them your self within your self. We all have too. SO JUST BACK THE HELL OFF ALREADY. its done everything was settled the rules were set and we stick to them.

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thedoctorcometostay:

Just goes to show how irrelevant our lives our and how we are full of our own self importance! Nothing we do matters when we’re just a dot in the midst of a huge universe.

This is why I’m a strong believer of life on other planets.

Holy shit

moniquill:

Unpopular opinion time:
No.
This is not ok.
If you have fucked up so badly at parenting that your kid is making posts like the above, property destruction and implied violence aren’t appropriate responses. This is not how functional adult people behave.
Hannah, in the video, doesn’t respect her father.
Given that her father invades her privacy, undermines her personal agency, and doesn’t have basic trust for her….I fully comprehend why she doesn’t. Respect is earned and taught. If Hannah posts giant, frustrated rants about her chore load, it probably implies that she doesn’t feel that her efforts are appreciated or that she’s an integral member of the family or household (alienation and over individuation is a huge problem for teens; it’s part of the formation of adult identity separate from parents and kind of a huge trap.
Teenagers are frustrated because their lives are absurd. They’re expected to have adult behavior with no adult agency. Maturity and decision making are learned skills. If parents don’t like the way their teens are behaving, they need to ask themselves where that behavior was learned. If she feels entitled, what have you been doing -her entire life- to communicate the real value of what she has and should be grateful for? If she refers to the woman who cleans for you as ‘the cleaning lady’ is that because she’s noted that you treat that woman that way? Asking for payment for work is not unreasonable; it’s an understanding of capitalism. A less asshat response than ‘are you out of your mind’ would be a basic rundown of the costs of the household in terms of food, heating, etc and what percentage of that Hannah should reasonably be responsible for. Given that she has no economic agency of her own, expressing to her that her chores are a means of repayment for that.
I grew up -poor- and my parents were still giving me an allowance by the time I was ten because that’s how you teach kids how to manage earned income. I received a dollar a week (upgraded to five dollars a week when I was 12) for completing a list of chores. If they weren’t done, I didn’t get paid. Just like you don’t get paid at a job if you don’t show up. My parents also stopped buying luxury items for me around that age and made me buy them myself with earned and saved income from my chores, babysitting, recycling cans, making crafts and selling them, whatever. My parents helped me find jobs and gave me suggestions about what I could so to earn money. If Hannah is fifteen, she cannot legally obtain most forms of employment; has she been educated as to what economic opportunities are available to her? Because as a parent EDUCATING HER IS, IN FACT, YOUR JOB. You got her an application and made her apply? Did you take her with you and teach her the process of how to obtain applications and where to look for places that are hiring? Did you make sure the place you got the application from accepts underage employees (most do not) or walk her through the application process in terms of how to make herself an attractive applicant?
‘When I was your age I’d moved out of the house, lived on my own, went to college while in highschool, worked two jobs, was a volunteer fireman’…. Uh….huh. And you didn’t manage to impart any of this work ethic on your children, apparently. Also: You grew up in a very different economy, as a man. I’m willing to bet you had parents or other helpful adults who made you aware of the opportunities available to you. You are judging your daughter for having a different outcome than you had, when she sure as shit didn’t have the same input.
Hannah is acting out in the most trivial of ways: Ranting and commiserating with friends. and even THAT outlet is being denied her. All the people above who liked and lauded this: Would you think it was awesome if Hanna was an adult woman who’d posted a frustrated rant about her significant other, and this was the significant other’s response? Or would you consider this to be emotional abuse and a redflag for accelerating relationship violence? Because that’s what this is: Emotional abuse. This is abusive parenting (looks like it’s in the wake of/a response to earlier emotionally negligent parenting, too).
If your kid is a spoiled brat? It is not the kid’s fault. Kids aren’t born spoiled brats. Parental behavior causes this. This man is reaping the seeds he has sewn, and because he’s unsatisfied with what his efforts have yielded, he’s responding with aggression and punishment and social humiliation.
That is -fucked up-. You are a -shitty parent-. You are not training your child to be a functional adult.If you child lacks life skills, if your child does not respect you, if your child cannot think critically or understand the value of money or comprehend the importance of maintaining a household THAT IS YOUR FUCKING FAULT. This kind of extreme behavior is SERIOUSLY too little too late, and an act of aggressive desperation because YOU FUCKED UP.
If I were advising Hannah in this situation? I’d be helping her figure out ways to get the fuck away from these people and hook her up with resources that would teach her actual life skills.
Worth noting? This dude is shooting in what is clearly a residential area. That is unsound (though not necessarily criminal in his locality) behavior. This is not something to be celebrated. Property destruction and implied violence are not things to be celebrated. Emotional abuse in response to shitty teen behavior that results from bad parenting in the first place is not something to be celebrated.
This whole fucking family needs to get to family counseling STAT.

the person who made this statement come meet my leather belt cause obviously you need a good spanking and were deprived one as a kid. The most disrespectful shit ever if my kid ever pull that this i wouldnt make a video id do the shit right in front of her. she didnt buy that laptop she doesnt pay the lady who helps clean OBVIOUSLY she lacks the respect she needs and will need to learn in a more drastic way.

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mikau:

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littlekochanek:

I’m pretty sure that tape is not good to use for binding.

pretty fuckin sure you are all stupid who cares what shes binding with you nit picking fucks read and take in the message and shut the fuck up

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seerofsarcasm:

pah:

from this father’s message to his daughter

I just watched this, and THIS is how you raise a fucking kid. This man clearly cares for his daughter. He clearly expects the best from her, and she is clearly a spoiled little bitch. But he knows how to handle that. Not with violence towards her, but a strong message of him being at the end of his rope and not taking her shit anymore. Kids should be raised strict. Without punishment my generation has gone to total shit. My momma raised me with chores, and any time I seemed spoiled, she would tell me straight up how the world works. And you know what? I hated her in high school, but now that i’m grown and look at others in my generation who can’t handle their own shit or expect to get everything handed to them, I realize that she raised me to survive in this world. She raised me to know what’s really up. She raised me right.
I applaud this father, there needs to be more like him.

THIS FUCKIN FATHER!!

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I came. HOLY. SHIT.

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